Understanding Technology-Facilitated Abuse

Published on 8th of July 2025

In today’s digital world, technology has become deeply embedded in our relationships, offering convenience, connection, and communication. But for many experiencing domestic and family violence, technology is also being weaponised as a tool of control, surveillance, and intimidation. Known as technology-facilitated abuse (TFA), this form of violence can be subtle, hidden, and devastating. From constant location tracking to threatening messages and online harassment, TFA can make victims feel trapped, watched, and powerless - even in their own homes. In this article, we unpack what technology-facilitated abuse looks like, who it affects, and why recognising the signs is a critical step in offering support and safety.

What is Technology-Facilitated Abuse?

TFA refers to the use of digital technologies to harass, monitor, threaten, control, or abuse another person. It can happen during or after a relationship, but the emotional and psychological impacts are often just as serious as physical forms of abuse.

People who are experiencing TFA often feel trapped, isolated, and constantly watched, making it difficult to seek help or escape from the abusive relationship.

The Scope of the Issue: National Statistics

According to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (@AIHW):

• Prevalence of Technology-Facilitated Abuse:
   A 2022 study by the Australian National Research Organisation for Women’s Safety (@ANROWS) found that 51% of Australian adults reported experiencing at least one form of TFA in their lifetime. (Stalking and surveillance - Australian Institute of Health and Welfare)
• Gender Disparities:
   Women are disproportionately affected, with 74% of females aged 18–24 and 71% of those aged 25–34 reporting lifetime experiences of TFA.  (Young women - Australian Institute of Health and Welfare)
• Children and Technology-Facilitated Abuse:
   In about one-third of domestic violence cases, children are involved in TFA, often through monitoring or being used to relay information. (Children and young people - Australian Institute of Health and Welfare)

So, what does Technology-Facilitated Abuse look like?

• Sending Abusive Messages:
  This can occur through texts, emails, or social media messages. These communications are often intended to frighten, control, or humiliate the person experiencing the abuse.
• Tracking Someone’s Location:
  Spyware and phone tracking apps allow an abuser to monitor a person’s every movement, without their consent. This kind of surveillance creates a constant sense of fear and limits a person’s autonomy.
• Forcing Someone to Prove Their Whereabouts:
  Abusers may demand that their partner provides real-time proof of their location, reinforcing control and isolation.
• Checking Private Activity:
  When someone monitors their partner’s texts, social media, or internet browsing history, they violate personal boundaries and trust. This is an attempt to undermine the individual’s privacy and autonomy.

Why Is This So Important?

Recognising the signs of Technology-Facilitated Abuse is a crucial first step in supporting those experiencing it. Many people experiencing TFA may not even realise it’s a form of abuse, which makes it important to understand the tactics used and the devastating impact they have on an individual’s well-being.

Want to Learn More?

For more education and resources, visit the eSafety Commissioner and join the fight against Technology-Facilitated Abuse.

If you’re unsure about how to recognise these signs or want to deepen your understanding of supporting individuals who may be affected by TFA, we invite you to enrol in one of our 2-Day Foundation Workshops.

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